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The contact form will be sent to my personal email address, and I treat all information with the utmost discretion. Initial contact must be through email if you do not wish to use this form. I only give my phone number to those who have screened. I strongly recommend reading through my entire website, especially my Etiquette section, before making any contact to me. If you submit your form and do not hear back from me, please check your spam folder and/or feel free to send me another message via email.
I do not discriminate against any adult over the age of 21 based on race, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, ability level, or religion. My incall is not ADA accessible at the moment (a few steps to get up to the door, otherwise first floor), but I am happy to book an accessible hotel if needed. Hablo un poco de español. Ich spreche ein bisschen Deutsch.
Screening is non-negotiable and must be completed before any in-person meetings can take place. Please have these materials prepared prior to contacting me. Phone dates do not require screening.
ID + Employment Verification (Required):
Please fill out the Contact form completely, then either upload these documents or send me an email containing these materials:
- A photo of your driver’s license or other valid, government-issued ID (name, photo, and birth date visible, other information may be censored if you wish).
- A photo of yourself holding your ID next to your face so I can see you match the photo
There are many ways that I can verify employment. If your name or photo show up on a company website, if you have a well-established LinkedIn profile, or if you can send me an image of your work ID or a recent pay stub, those may suffice. If not, call-in methods are possible. I will not contact you at your place of business without express permission from you first.
References are wonderful, and I appreciate the added information that I can use for screening. Please prepare your reference to hear from me.
Online Screening (Limited):
In limited cases I may accept P411 as screening for those who also provide a recent (6 months or less) reference from a provider on my friends list and have an OK within the last 6 months. I reserve the right to ask for additional screening materials if I do not feel comfortable based on your P411 profile alone.
Need a reference?
Clients: Please ask first and prepare me to hear from the person vetting you. I will only provide references if it has been 6 months or fewer, or up to three references since our last meeting. After that, I will inform providers that it has been a while or that you have asked me for multiple references and that you should have a more recent one by now.
Providers: Please include as much information about the client as possible, (name, phone, email, date of last meeting), as well as your personal ad/site. Email me directly at [email protected].