Etiquette

Introduce yourself.  

Knowing a little bit about you helps me to feel comfortable with you.

Use my Contact form to schedule during available times.

This is the fastest and easiest way to know if I am available to meet or not.  I don’t have my schedule memorized, and doing an availability back-and-forth wastes valuable time.  I’ve provided everything you need to know here on this site. 

Have your screening information prepared up front. 

The screening materials are listed on my contact page.  This shows me you are serious about meeting and that you respect my concern for safety.  Screening is non-negotiable and must be completed before anything else.

Email or the contact form are the best first way to reach me.

Please refrain from using private messaging on 3rd-party sites.  The contact form on this website goes to my email address, which is [email protected]. 

​Tell me how you first learned about me.

This helps me know what works in terms of bringing in quality suitors!

Only set a meeting with me if you are sure you can make it.

I will be respectful of your time, and I expect you to be respectful of mine.  Only cancel or reschedule if you absolutely must, and please communicate this as soon as you know you need to.

Include duration & location information.

Let me know how long you would like to meet for, and whether you or I will be hosting.

If you have any special needs, please let me know well in advance.​

Do not try to negotiate my donations.

Do not ask me questions about activities or send me explicit messages.

Text and email are for screening and setting up a time to meet only. Please reserve other subjects for after we’ve officially met.  Sending me sexual/fetish fantasy scenarios or asking questions about such activities are inappropriate and unsafe.  This includes all acronyms, euphemisms, and “clever” innuendo.  If you must have those conversations prior to meeting, I am not the provider for you. Lewd messages are grounds for immediate disqualification from ever meeting with me.

Outfit requests

I am most comfortable dressing myself for a first meeting.  Simple and broad requests (color or style of clothing, level of dressiness) that give me flexibility in my decisions are the most welcome and most likely to be accommodated.   I will accommodate more complex outfit requests (themes, role play dress, etc.) within reason, but I appreciate if these requests are reserved for meetings 2 hours or longer and happen with folks I’ve already met. If you would like to bring me an outfit to wear, send me an email to ask about sizing. The saree pictured in my wolf photos is not available as an outfit request.

Do not ask me for additional pictures.

I have plenty of photographs available on my website, and I am very serious about protecting my identity.  Therefore, I will not send any photos to you that include my face.

Please keep communications prompt and short. 

I’m happy to help you out in getting set up to meet, but I prefer to spend time with you face-to-face, when I can focus my entire time and attention on you.  If you would like to have regular communication from me, I am open to negotiating texting/emailing GFE packages.

If you need additional information from me, please ask well in advance.

Starting about 2 hours before our meeting I will be very busy preparing myself and my incall for your arrival and will unlikely be able to communicate very much.

Verify that we will be meeting. 

Sometimes I will reach out to you, but I welcome you to do so first.

Please follow all instructions I give you for getting to my incall very carefully.  This will help cut down on confusion and wasted time trying to find my place and parking. 

Arrive on time. 

Any amount of time that you arrive late is time you may take from yourself. 

Please do not arrive more than five minutes early.  There are ample restaurants and places to hang out near my place while I finish getting ready if your arrival is earlier than anticipated.

Hygiene

Make sure you are well-showered and groomed with teeth recently brushed. I have a shower available in my incall if you wish to shower upon arrival.

If you are a smoker, I appreciate efforts to cover the smell of smoke.

Please minimize stubble.  If you shave, a fresh, completely smooth shave is preferred.  Otherwise, softer and longer fur is appreciated.

Extensions

If you think you may want to extend our time together, please have additional compensation with you when you arrive.

Knock on my door quietly.  I will let you in. 

Have the correct donation ready, in an unsealed envelope or card, and set it on any desk or dresser you like where I can see it.  Then please excuse yourself to the bathroom for a few moments. 

Communicate with me.

 Tell me things you like and don’t like.  Everybody is a little bit different and I am not a mind-reader, even if you would like me to be in charge.  If you want something, please ask!  I can always say no, but I have no way of knowing if you don’t tell me.  Better communication paves the way for better trust and more opportunities.

Listen carefully to any instructions I give you and be respectful of boundaries I set.

Having to repeat myself can lead to frustration or feeling unsafe.  Please follow directions the first time, and ask questions if you don’t understand what I’m saying.

Be ready to leave by the time our scheduled time is at an end.  It is not fun for either of us for it to feel like I am pushing you out the door.  If you desire to take a shower before you leave, please make sure to complete your shower during our regularly scheduled time.

Stay in touch. 

I like to meet my friends more than once!

Reviews.

I do not prefer to receive reviews, as I consider them indiscreet and often tasteless. Please read any existing reviews at your own discretion.  There are some folks who publish exaggerated or completely fabricated experiences with me on The Erotic Monkey in particular, and I have difficulty getting them taken down.

Use me as a reference

Give me a heads up if you’d like to use me as a reference to meet another provider.  This makes sure I know to expect it and can respond more quickly.  Please only use me as a reference for 6 months or 3 references from our last meeting, whichever comes first.

I am happy to give you an OK on P411.

Give me feedback.

If there is anything I can do to improve your next experience with me, I am always willing to learn.

Be sure to provide location details.

Provide me with the address and room number (if applicable) where I will be meeting you as soon as possible.

Give me information about parking if you have it. 

Extra donation to cover parking is expected if I must pay to park.

I will not text while driving. 

If you wish, I can text you before I start driving to you.  Otherwise, please expect me to arrive at the agreed upon time unless you hear otherwise from me.  I will not respond to messages sent after I’m already on the way.